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Everyone Needs a Partner…

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Nightingale-Conant

Many years ago, I was wondering where I could find the answers to the difficult questions in life. I was wondering why some of my friends were doing well and I was not living the life I wanted to live. I needed skills I didn’t have, I didn’t even know how to type and from the late 1980’s to today, let’s just say that the world is a drastically different place. When I was in high school, the biggest threat to our freedoms and our way of life was the Soviet Union and instead of the much-debated issue of global warming being the “biggest threat” to life on Earth, it was global thermal nuclear warfare (which I guess is a lot like “global warming,” but on a much greater scale).

I found myself a little lost when I decided not to stay in the Navy and retire. My transition from the Navy to civlian world was a little tricky, to say the least. The Navy didn’t teach us anything about the Law of Attraction and, if I had to guess, they probably still don’t. I didn’t learn any negotiation skills or any skills I needed to succeed in today’s world. Going back to college was not going to happen for me and finding a great, high-paying job was also not in my future…unless I created it. That led my thoughts to having the best job in the world, the job I created for myself. I have since been involved with several different companies representing several different products and services over the years. My life as I wanted it was put on hold from 2002-2006 when I wandered in south Florida searching for the right brokerage firm for me, selling currency and commodity options and futures. That didn’t work either. Then finally, a couple of years ago, I realized that the problem wasn’t the government, the tax structure, my business associates, the businesses I was involved in or the products I represented (and until a couple of years ago, I represented poorly).

I realized that I was the problem of why my life wasn’t going the way I wanted. I didn’t have the skills, the education, the mindset or the information. In the past couple of weeks, I have partnered with the Nightingale-Conant Corporation. Nightingale-Conant was formed by Earl Nightingale and Lloyd Conant in 1960 and is the world leader in personal development materials.

I have been a customer of Nightingale-Conant’s for years now and I’d like to share one of the sources for the information I have needed and used to change my life. Now, with all of the advances in technology, change happens quicker than ever. If you don’t stay ahead of change, change will wipe you out. You have to be stronger mentally, you have to know where you’re going and how you’re going to get there. You have to associate with the personal coaches that have already helped countless thousands to achieve their goals, over the years. You have to maintain your belief that you can overcome obstacles and turn adversity into opportunity. You have to devlop the conviction and the perseverence that says “I will never give up!”

This is one of the companies I represent today because I use their products. In my library is some of the greatest audios available by some of the wisest leaders who have ever walked the planet. I have access to this enlightened world of knowledge, skills and motivation…and you can too! Living successfully has been and always be a choice. At any time you want you can change and improve your life…if you have the right information.

Nightingale-Conant is where I get my information to improve my life. Click on the link above and find something to change your life…because change is the only constant there is in the world.

Where Personal Development Comes From

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Jim RohnOver the past few years, I have assembled a decent library. I finally got around to reading a fantastic book called “The Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle” by a great man named Jim Rohn. I highly recommend this book. My copy is an eBook on my hard drive, courtesy of my enrolling in Jim Rohn International’s One Year Success Plan. My first exposure to him was when I was learning how to fail at sales in 1998. I was not quite computer literate yet, and I didn’t understand a lot of the changes that were happening around me. I heard the words and I liked what he had to say, but I couldn’t wrap my mind around the fact that none of my “friends” at the time had ever heard of him. After all, I had all the arrogance of being around some of the best minds in my hometown, not to mention my education and experience as a nuclear mechanical operator. Surely some of my “successful” friends would have heard of him. A couple of years ago, I realized that what I was listening to in 1998 was called “The Art of Exceptional Living.” It is a compilation of some of the late Mr. Rohn’s best work and, now, a part of my library.

I found myself with not a lot to do on Sunday, so instead of trying to keep up with the NFL scores of the day, I decided to do something productive and read a book. I had revisited the course a couple of nights before and realized that I had not read some of the material they sent me. Since the past couple years of my life have been almost exclusively devoted to creating positive personal change, I thought that I could keep up with football (fun to watch) or do something I have been meaning to do (improve myself by reading a new book). All throughout this book I could hear Mr. Rohn recite the lines he wrote many years ago. All of his ideas are great, inspiring and, best of all, they are true.

Why would I invest in a library of some of the best ideas ever written? Maybe I like to read. Maybe I’m actually serious about creating positive change in my life. Maybe it just looks cool (which I admit, I DO think it looks cool). This is where personal development comes from- the best ideas ever written and left by their authors for us to find. I am compiling this library because I have always had a hunger for knowledge and what I can do with it. It is also a curiosity of what those ideas can help me accomplish. Why not find a new idea that could help my business do better? Why not read something that makes the morning coffee taste a little better? Why not read something that inspires me with hope instead of the daily dread of the morning news?

This is where my greatest source of inspiration comes from…and to think it all started with a library card many years ago. Thank you, Mr. Rohn.

What If It’s Not as Bad as “They” Say It Is?

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This blog entry began on July 16, 2010. I am learning about writing a post and saving it as adraft so some of the current information may seem a little outdated, but the message is clear.

As I begin this entry, I am watching the stock markets enter a trading area known as “the crapper.” I’m sure that a lot of novice investors and faithful employees have probably lost money in the stock market this year- that is IF they are bold enough to try to trade this market. The catalyst is that a preliminary consumer sentiment index for July is at the lowest level in 11 months, which shouldn’t be that hard to imagine. I know that a lot of people are having a really difficult time right now financially. I’m not buying yachts or Carribbean islands right now, but I have to say that I’m doing alright. Considering that I was homeless a few years ago, my definition of “alright” might differ from yours. I’m achieving new goals and making plans to restore my FICO score to levels it hasn’t seen in years. This brings me to the question “Who do you believe?”

I almost never watch the news unless I’m forced to because it’s on in an area where I am, like having lunch at CNN Center. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that, if you’re having lunch at CNN Center, you WILL watch CNN, whether you like it or not. I do pull CNBC up online and whenever I can view it in my leisure time, but only very briefly and only during trading hours. It’s actually an old habit from my lost gig as a commodities and currency options and futures broker. Except if there’s some major breaking news, I pay as small amount of attention to the media as possible. I even missed Lindsay Lohan getting sentenced to 90 days in jail, but my life went on.

There is a school of thought that states that whatever thoughts you hold in your mind, those thoughts will materialize in the outside world. If this sounds like an excerpt from the book or movie “The Secret,” you’re right. It is also the way that prayers are answered. I have experienced this phenomenon in my life as I’m sure you have too. So if you watch a lot of news and do your personal economic forecasting and planning based on recent news reports, I’ll bet you haven’t gotten very far recently (unless you work for “the news”). With the media cranking out nothing but bad news, if you pay a lot of attention to it, you have nothing but bad thoughts running through your mind…and this is creating your current reality.

Let’s play a game to illustrate my point. I’m going to ask a few questions and, as quickly as you can, I want you to say first thought you have out loud (or think it to yourself, if you’re in a “quiet” place). My reference for this is an audio program called “I know What To Do, So Why Don’t I Do It” by Dr. Nick Hall (very highly recommended).

a) What color is freshly fallen snow?
b) What color do clouds appear on a sunny day?
c) What color is a doctor’s lab coat?
d) What color does table salt appear?
e) How do you pronounce the word spelled “w-h-i-t-e?”
f) What do cows drink?

Well five out of six “ain’t bad,” right?

What’s my point?

Since the first five questions had your mind fixating on with the word “white,” I would bet your answer for the last question was incorrect. Chances are pretty good that you answered “milk” for the last answer. Cows don’t drink milk, they give milk. Cows drink water.

So what if we’re all being brainwashed by the media these days to limit ourselves and our potential? What if it’s really not THAT bad out there? What if the media is painting a picture that does not really exist for you? I can just about guarantee that if you believe that it’s bad out there (in the “real” world), it will be for you. If you think that things are getting better for you, they will be getting better (or not seem as bad).

If things aren’t really that bad for you out there, what excuses can you now get rid of in order to improve your life?